Love in the Snow



Love in the Snow

11 February 2010
Happy Birthday, William

I would love to think that my brother William would actually see this at some point, and know for sure that I remember such things and that I love him. But, he won’t. I did actually call him tonight, though, and wish him a happy birthday personally. The timing wasn’t good for either of us to have a long conversation—I think he was on the phone with mama—and he said he’d call back. Moments later, our electricity went off and phone calls couldn’t happen. Someday, we’ll have the rest of that birthday conversation.

Today’s photo tells the story of our day here in North Texas. We woke up to almost three inches of snow. On his way down the driveway and off to work, Kyle drew this heart in the snow on my truck windshield and I ran to get my camera. I took a few more photos, many of which made my cut and are on my Flickr stream. It is such a pretty snow—very wet and very sticky. The trees are gorgeous! But, unfortunately, wet and sticky snow is also very, very heavy. Tree branches are breaking throughout the metroplex and with that comes downed wires. And downed wires means power outages.

We were watching something on television, cuddled on the new sofa, and there was a “pop,” everything went dark, and then, outside the back door I saw the world take on an eerie blue glow. The strange light brightened to almost daylight and then slowly faded to black. “Slowly” is relevant, of course—the whole thing happened in little more than the blink of an eye—probably no more than a second or two. But, “black” really means black.
We are weeks from a full moon, the snow is still falling, so the sky is overcast, anyway, and with no artificial light and no moon and no stars—it is black.

Fortunately candles and oil lamps are always at the ready at our house, so we were easily able to light our way to put the dogs to bed, flip light switches off, brush our teeth (one of the perks of city water rather than the well and pump I grew up with is that you still have water when you have no electricity) and go to bed.

It’s cold, but we have each other.

~MB




Curious Cat



Curious Cat

10 February 2010

This photo of Artemis is totally out of focus, but I don’t care, ’cause it makes me laugh.

I was actually trying to take a photo of something completely different, and she snuck up on me while I was uber-focused mentally on my task. By the time I steadied up and clicked the trigger button, she had rolled over and shoved her face right up to the camera.

I love my cat.

~MB




Royal Purple Trim



Royal Purple Trim

9 February 2010

Well, this time Kelly’s flight took off as scheduled. She has left Texas for her new Ohio home. I miss her already.

But, in the “never a dull moment” department, I once again got an unplanned bonus day of fun. Roxy and Damaris had been intending to stay with us only one night and then resume their journey to Florida. But, after a wonderful relaxing evening, and a bloody mary morning, the three of us conceived an entirely new plan. They would run to Scarborough, accomplishing a necessary errand, visit with some folks, and come back here for dinner and one more night with us! Yay! And, the most fun part was that we wanted to surprise Kyle.

While they were gone, I was able to do a little cleaning and a little work, and the girls got back in plenty of time, so that when Kyle came in and saw Bashi (Damaris’ dog and Cormac and ‘Tia’s new playmate) and then saw the girls, he was both pleased and surprised. (They even parked their car across the street so he would be less likely to notice the Colorado plates!) We went back to No Frills for dinner and this time it was Tuesday night and the trivia was super fun. We joined Brett and Jill and Derek and together we were a trivia team to be reckoned with, for sure!

My photo today, taken while the girls were away, is of one of the royal purple trims that will likely get used on our queen’s new gown for Scarborough Renaissance Festival. That is, unless her ladyship changes her mind on fabrics and the colours end up not working as I wish. Right now, work has not yet begun on it, so anything is possible!

~MB




Epergne



Epergne

8 February 2010

I have been a good girl and I got a prize! At least that’s the way I’m choosing to view the extra time we got with Kelly today. I took her to the airport this morning . . . really, I did! But, her flight was cancelled due to weather in the East where the plane was stuck, and I picked her up again and took her back home! Lucky us! Sorry, John!

In the time between drop-off and pick-up, I went and picked out my new glasses. This pair will take about a week to be made—one of my lenses was not in stock. So, I will have to be patient—not something I’m used to in the eyewear department! Usually I walk in the day before I want to wear them and do my best to have them in my hand within a day or so. But, anything worth having is worth waiting for . . . right?

Kelly and I relished in one more afternoon and evening together, although she did pass on our dinner at No Frills Grill. I guess once a week is good enough for her. ;-) But, we were committed to it because we had promised Roxy and Damaris that’s what we would do the night they arrived. And, arrive they did, mid-afternoon. On their way to a faire in Florida, we were grateful that they chose to plan their trip around a visit to us along the way. Sadly, the trivia game on the telly tonight was all sports, so we neither did well nor enjoyed it very much. But, we had a good time and Kelly joined us after she had dinner elsewhere.

My photo today is of the silver plated epergne that I bought some years ago on eBay. It is really a wonderful piece, as the tussy mussy holders are individual and removable for cleaning and carrying. I used to take it to Dickens, fill it with appropriate flowers, and use it as decoration on the front table at the Gingerbread Ball, but lately, it has simply lived up high on one piece of antique furniture or another. Kelly and I were discussing flowers for her upcoming wedding, and suddenly I remembered it and realized it was perfect. The center tussy mussy is bigger and just right for the bride. The three smaller ones will work for we girls, and the whole thing becomes the ultimate centerpiece after the ceremony. Woo hoo! Score!

Now, if I could only find a way to keep Kelly another day or two!

~MB




Good Friends Make Everything Easier



Good Friends Make Everything Easier

7 February 2010

Today began with a wonderful brunch at Mimi’s and fabulous friends gathered around the table. The day was relaxed and we could almost feel the healing taking place. In the evening, we decided to brave the crowds for the dinner hour in the Highlands in Arlington. We’d had similar plans foiled on Friday night when we simply didn’t think even BJ’s was worth an hour-long wait. But, tonight the perfect table in the bar area was empty when we arrived and we claimed it. It’s a corner booth, semi-circular in nature, with a fabulous view of the entire bar and the giant television screen above it. And, it was Super Bowl night, after all.

Kyle and Kelly and I enjoyed the ambiance and it wasn’t long before we thought to include Ken and Denise in our evening. They had somehow missed out on brunch, so they jumped at this chance to be social and joined us before halftime. We thoroughly enjoyed our food, the game and the company! After dinner and the game, we weren’t done visiting, so Ken and Denise came back to the house with us and I got the wonderful first time experience of filling our living room furniture with happiness! With Kelly and I each in a big chair, and Kyle and Ken and Denise on the couch, any doubts I had about keeping all this furniture in our little living room evaporated! It was a wonderful, relaxed, comfortable way to share a bottle of wine and some great quality time with chosen family.

I sigh a sigh of contentedness and the very thought of putting Kelly on a plane in the morning is too sad to consider.

~MB




Viking Longboat . . . Farewell to Bert



Bert's Viking Longboat

6 February 2010

After days of sadness, perhaps tonight’s gathering for Bert will finally provide the closure on this that so many of us need.

Kyle and I and a dozen or so truly wonderful people, all spent the day at Scarborough working on our East Wind Games booth. The floor repair turned into a floor replacement, and when I left at 4:30 p.m. I had no idea that the guys still had seven more hours of work ahead of them! How Kyle and I can ever truly repay these guys (and gals) for all their hard work and devotion, is totally beyond me. I can only hope that someday we’ll be able to even the score. The beer and burgers we provided surely don’t cut it!

I left the faire site, went home for a quick shower, and then Kelly and I headed out to the wake for Bert. It was a lovely event, with so many of Bert’s friends from all walks of his life, gathered to pay one last tribute to him. A friend of his with a giant, old home in Fort Worth, opened the ground floor to the crowd, and somehow bore the knowledge that she’d have some cleaning to do when all was said and done. Food tables were set up in both the kitchen and entry areas with an array of yumminess I’ve rarely seen equaled. People sat on furniture and on the floor throughout the house; a giant group of grazers constantly mutated in the kitchen. Two separate rooms became musical spots with guitars and flutes and bodhrans—even a hammered dulcimer—and voices raised in song. It was a beautiful evening and only my exhaustion caused me to want to leave by about eleven o’clock.

Kyle and Kelly and I all got home around the same time, all completely spent from the hard work—both physical and mental—of the day.

My photo today is of the beautiful cake that someone made for the party. A fitting farewell for our friend, Bert.

~MB




Still Struggling



5 February 2010

Yep. Yesterday’s cure for the funk only lasted so long. Today . . . still struggling . . . damn it, Bert.
No photo.

~MB




A Day with Kelly



Kelly at the Eye Doctor

4 February 2010

In the aftermath of the bad news of the loss of a dear friend, come the days of listlessness. Days of not knowing what to do and that feeling that nothing you could possibly do really matters. In an effort to break out of that funk today, Kelly and I went out for Asian food and new glasses! Kelly had been needing a new pair of glasses, and I recommended our doctor for the exam. Her new lenses will be ready for pick up within a day or two.

Now, I’m thinking about a new pair, too! Hmmm . . .

~MB




Floor Crew



6 February 2010
It’s early Spring. And, in my life, early Spring means faire preparation. This year we started a tiny bit earlier than normal because we had more to do. And, frankly, it’s a damn good thing we did. What was suppose to be a 2-3 hour job as we replaced a small portion of floor that had rotted away became a full-day (10am to 11:30pm) event involving huge, unexpected expense and the toil of many wonderful friends. Two of those friends are in this photo and I can’t thank them enough. There is no way I can possibly thank this amazing crew of friends, my faire family, enough.
Destruction Crew
They came and freely gave of their time, their skill & their labour to replace the entire floor in my East Wind Games shop. All that remains now is to paint it.
Thank you each and every one!
Cheers.

~KR (Written on 23 February 2010)

Listening to:
My Mom by Eminem
from Relapse

Camera: Canon PowerShot SD850 IS
Exposure: 0.003 sec (1/400)
Aperture: f/2.8
Focal Length: 5.8 mm
ISO Speed: 80
Exposure Bias: 0 EV
Flash: Auto, Did not fire




Quesadillas II



4 February 2010
Well, look at that. More quesadillas. I’ll bet they’re from Abuelo’s, too. This time we took our Kelly with us!
Quesadillas II
Cheers.

~KR (Written on 23 February 2010)

Listening to:
Wild Honey by Beach Boys
from British Top 30 – 1967

Camera: Canon PowerShot SD850 IS
Exposure: 0.167 sec (1/6)
Aperture: f/2.8
Focal Length: 5.8 mm
ISO Speed: 200
Exposure Bias: 0 EV
Flash: Off, Did not fire